Let me say something that is common sense but most women don’t seem to understand. Your wedding lasts one day. Your marriage is supposed to last a lifetime. So why would you spend all of your time, energy, and efforts, focused on a day instead of a lifetime. The wedding truly has nothing to do with the marriage. Focus on the future, plan for living with your husband after the wedding.
When some women get married, they get comfortable. They stop taking care of themselves the way they used to. The marriage slowly starts to fall apart. I’m not saying if you stay healthy, fit, and attractive your marriage will last forever. What I will say is, marriage is a full time job! It requires a lot of hard work in order to make it last, from both people. The success of your marriage starts with you!
Take care of yourself, continue to be the woman he fell in love with. Evolve as an individual and let your spouse reap the benefits. If you take care of yourself and your partner leaves you, it will be a lot easier to find a replacement. Moving on after you let yourself go and expecting to get in a healthy relationship is nearly impossible. So, let the success of your marriage motivate you to take care of yourself mentally, physically, and spiritually on a daily basis!